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First off, Welcome! My name’s Kyle and I’m the founder of The Distilled Man.
The Distilled Man helps you learn essential skills every man should know. From how to make a cocktail, to how to cook a steak, to how to give a speech…The Distilled Man gives you the foundational knowledge and confidence to be a well-rounded man.
If you’ve never been to the site, here are a few things you should do right now:
1. Download Your Free “48-Hour Gentleman” ebook
This 42-page pdf guide gives you 9 easy ways to take action and start being a better man in just one weekend:
- Get a shirt tailored
- Cook a perfect steak
- Make a Manhattan
- Improve your posture
- …and more
I think it’s pretty swell (and it has been downloaded over 8,000 times), but don’t take my word for it:
“One of the best free ebooks I’ve seen for men in a long time!”
-Antonio Centeno, Real Men Real Style
2. Get a Head Start With These Posts
Once you’ve grabbed the ebook, dive into these popular articles and videos below.
Being a well-rounded gentleman isn’t just about how you dress and how you carry yourself—it’s about the everyday little things:
Read: 75 Things a Gentleman Does Differently
But as great as you think you are, you’ll never succeed if you can’t learn from the wisdom of great men:
Read: Take Life By the Balls: 31 Inspiring Quotes on Being a Better Man
One of the topics I discuss a lot on The Distilled Man is the importance of paying attention to the details. Like it or not, people judge books by their covers. So give yourself every advantage:
Read: 9 Grooming Issues You Think People Don’t Notice (But They Do)
Watch: Shop Like a Man: 5 Simple Steps to Make Buying Clothes Easier for Guys
Even if you’re dressed and groomed perfectly, none of it matters if you can’t connect with other people—whether you’re looking for romance or just a drinking buddy:
Read: How to Ask a Woman Out: 13 Keys to Success
Read: Making Guy Friends as a Man: Male Friendship 101
Watch: How to Make Small Talk Without Feeling Small
In addition to these topics, you can bone up on other essentials like 7 Classic Cocktails Every Gentleman Should Know. There are also tons of other great tips and links on my Resources Page. And finally, feel free to browse some of my other helpful Videos.
Phew. That was a lot, wasn’t it? It’s all worth it—I promise. We’re almost done here…
3. Follow The Distilled Man on Facebook and Twitter
When you like The Distilled Man on Facebook or follow me on Twitter, you get access to loads of extra content, tips, and updates. Best of all, you’ll stay connected with me and other DM readers.
4. Listen to the Podcast
Check out the latest episodes from The Distilled Man Podcast, where we interview experts and thought-leaders that will inspire you to set a higher bar in your life.
5. Sit Back, Breathe Deep and Do Nothing for 1 Minute
Ahh, doesn’t that feel good? Life is pretty great when you stop and actually experience it.
Ok, excellent! Thanks again for dropping by. I look forward to connecting with you. Cheers!
P.S. If you want to find out more about me and why I started The Distilled Man, click here.