Why You Need a Mentor | Ryan Michler

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As men, sometimes it’s easy for us to glorify the idea of independence. Making our own way with no help from anyone. But the truth is, most people you look up to—whatever their field, whatever their accomplishments—probably made it because they had help or advice from people who’d been there before.

On today’s episode, my guest Ryan Michler and I talk about the importance of mentorship. We talk about how to find the right mentor, how to approach a potential mentor, and Ryan also shares his experience working with coaches, plus his own role as mentor to other men.

Guys, I’m really excited to bring you today’s guest. He’s friend of mine, and frankly, has one of the most terrific beards you’ll ever see. Ryan Michler is the founder of Order of Man, an online community dedicated to helping guys live with purpose, achieve self-mastery, and become better leaders.

It’s been amazing to watch the growth of his channel over the last few years. He has a top-rated podcast, he’s built one of the most impressive private Facebook groups with upwards of 30,000 members, and he also leads an exclusive men’s brotherhood called the Iron Council. I really enjoyed our conversation about mentorship, and I think you will too.

Episode Highlights

Why the idea of being the “lone wolf” is so attractive
How a mentor can reduce your learning curve and create exponential growth in your life
The levels of mentorship, and the difference between direct and indirect mentorship
How to evaluate whether you’re ready for a mentor
The 4-step assessment Ryan recommends for zeroing in on what you need from a mentor
How to find and approach a potential mentor
Why having a mentor helps elevate your level of thinking
How to create a “win/win” relationship with a potential mentor
Why Mister Miyagi made Daniel “wax on, wax off” and paint the fence