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How to Make a Great First Impression

You’ve heard it before: you never get a second chance to make a first impression. It seems kind of unfair, doesn’t it?... Read More

Table Manners 101: Basic Dining Etiquette

When you hear the words "table manners" you may just think of arbitrary rules for rules' sake. But at their core, manners are... Read More

101 Motivational Quotes on Being a Gentleman

As men, sometimes we get caught up in the daily business of life, and we forget that being called a gentleman is... Read More

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David Coggins: Men and Manners

David Coggins shares why manners are still very much relevant—and maybe even more critical in today’s day and age…. Read More

11 Signs You Are (Finally) A Grown Man

We don’t magically become wise and responsible men as soon as we reach a certain age. Here are the signs that a man is true to himself and living with integrity…. Read More

36 Classic Sayings Every Man Should Know

These adages, proverbs, and aphorisms are full of manly wisdom, and are just as relevant today as they were a hundred years ago. … Read More

5 Classic Things That Are Still Better the Old Fashioned Way

Have you noticed how we always celebrate new technologies and novel ways of doing things? Change is exciting. But after that excitement… Read More

Lizzie Post: Etiquette in the 21st Century

Some people think etiquette and manners are a thing of the past, old stodgy rules for rules’ sake. But that couldn’t be… Read More

How to Make a Great First Impression

You’ve heard it before: you never get a second chance to make a first impression. It seems kind of unfair, doesn’t it?… Read More

Table Manners 101: Basic Dining Etiquette

When you hear the words “table manners” you may just think of arbitrary rules for rules’ sake. But at their core, manners are… Read More

Toasting Your First Cigar

My parents had just returned from a three-week trip to Cuba. All I asked for was a cigar. So when they pulled… Read More

101 Motivational Quotes on Being a Gentleman

As men, sometimes we get caught up in the daily business of life, and we forget that being called a gentleman is… Read More

8 Ways to Shake a Lady’s Hand Without Crushing It (From Her)

Editor’s note: this is a guest post by Claudia Cox. Do you get nervous about shaking a woman’s hand? You’re probably not… Read More

Effortless Thank You Notes: 5 Templates and Tools to Help Automate Your Gratitude

I’m not going to lie, I don’t have a perfect record when it comes to sending thank you notes. But, like many… Read More

6 Ways to Politely End a Conversation

Have you ever found yourself stuck in a conversation you couldn’t get out of? You’re at a party or an event, having a conversation,… Read More

How To Text Like A Gentleman

This is a guest post by Claudia Cox, creator of Text Weapon. There was an episode of Everybody Loves Raymond on the… Read More

Guy’s Night Refined: A Man’s Guide to Entertaining at Home

So, you’re having your buddies over. A night to ditch the lady-friends and have some fun with the guys at your place…. Read More

Food Waste and The Holidays: A Responsible Man’s Primer

Holidays are a time to see family, veg out, watch football, and most of all, to eat until we’re stuffed…then eat more once… Read More

Minding Manners: Why Etiquette is Important With Tamiko Zablith

When you hear the phrase “proper etiquette,” you might think of stuffy rules and traditions…that are only meaningful to people who live in estates in… Read More

75 Things a Gentleman Does Differently

What is the definition of a gentleman? A man who’s polite and dresses well? A man who knows how to carry himself… Read More

24 Ways to Be a “Memorable” Houseguest During the Holidays

When you stay at someone’s house for the holidays, you’re generally going to be a topic of conversation. Before your visit and especially after… Read More

How to Plan a Perfect Cocktail Party

Planning a perfect cocktail party doesn’t have to be complicated. The essential components to a great cocktail party are: good people, good drinks, and good… Read More

How to Inscribe a Book

Do you ever pull a book off your shelf, crack it open, and find an old inscription written by the person who gave it… Read More

How to Give a Proper Toast

“Seven years bad sex!” Say what? I’m not generally a superstitious person, but when I heard that my ears perked up. I… Read More

A Guy’s Guide to Better Gift-Giving

If you think you’re already a gift-giving ninja, you can stop reading right now. But if you’re like the rest of us… Read More

A Gentleman’s Guide to Choosing the Right Cigar

Whether you are a cigar connoisseur or a first timer, choosing the right cigar for your palate is extremely important. Walking into… Read More

A/B Testing a Best Man’s Speech

There are a handful of moments in life you can point to and say, “Ah yes, that’s when I really learned about… Read More

How to Take Your Poker Face Out of the Equation

Have you ever worried you might be crappy at poker because you have a lousy poker face and you wear your emotions… Read More

3 Tips for Ordering Wine Like a Pro

Everyone wants to be “that guy” at the restaurant. The guy who looks at a wine list, confidently surveys his choices, and… Read More

4 Essential Life Lessons You Can Learn From Poker

Poker is a fascinating game. It’s not just reckless gambling in the way that casino games like blackjack are. It involves skill,… Read More

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